5 Day Private Coupes Intimacy Retreat in Hawai'i
5 DAY PRIVATE COUPLES INTIMACY RETREAT (for 2)
Haleiwa, Hawaii, USA. Private Oceanview Villa
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All workshops are uniquely personalized in collaboration with Dr. B using evidence-based therapy models for a truly award-winning wellness journey with 9 x Global Award-Winning Relationship and Sex Therapist, Dr. Stephanie Bathurst .
Our 5-day Couples Day Retreat is a fully immersive experience designed to reignite passion, deepen intimacy, and transform your relationship on every level. Each day integrates clinically-guided workshops with adventure, play, and personalized experiences, giving you the growth equivalent to years of couples therapy —without exhaustion, stress, or distraction. This retreat includes:
- 10 two-hour therapy workshops directly with Dr. Bathurst and personalized to your relationship
- 5 date excursions (your choice from 12 extraordinary intimacy-building adventures)
- A chef-prepared lunch each day of retreat
- Full access to our private, on-site Spa area (includes sauna, cold plunge, full gym, walking labyrinth, red light)
- Heathy snacks, coffee, tea and juice throughout the day
- Gifts and therapy resources to take home for long-term success
Inclusive Therapist-Led Workshops & Experiences
- Libido Rejuvenation & Alignment – Rediscover sexual energy and harmonize desire between partners.
- Gottman-based Resentment Repair (Phase 1 + EMDR) – Heal past hurts, rebuild trust, and restore emotional safety.
- Somatic Bodywork & Breathwork (including Tantra & Karezza) – Reawaken bodily awareness, cultivate arousal, and deepen connection.
- Arousal Amplifier Techniques – Learn actionable tools to increase sexual energy, responsiveness, and shared pleasure.
- Introduction to Kink & Erotic Exploration – Safely explore erotic curiosity, communication, and play.
- Holistic Health & Integrative Medicine for Individual Enlightenment – Optimize mind, body, and nervous system wellness through nutrition, herbal medicine, and functional practices.
- Mindfulness, Meditation & Meditative Movement – Cultivate presence, relaxation, and conscious connection with your partner.
- Sexual Biofeedback & Pelvic Floor Activation – Build stamina, increase pleasure, and enhance intimate responsiveness.
- Gottman-Based Emotional and Physical Reconnection (Phase 2 + 3) – Evidence-based techniques to resolve disputes and strengthen emotional attunement.
- Re-Commitment Rituals & Relationship Visioning – Exercises to clarify values, desires, and long-term goals together.
Excursions with Purpose
Each adventure is a curated, therapeutic experience, introduced at the start of the experience to maximize meaning and integration. Excursions are led by certified local specialists, ensuring every activity reinforces relational growth.
Your Choice of 5 Excursions
- Guided snorkeling with turtles or dolphins
- Paumalu Pillbox Hike or Ka' ena State Park scenic hike
- Beehive tour and honey tasting at Hanai Hives
- Hawaiian Luau dinner and show at Toa Luau
- Swim under a waterfall at Waimea Botanical Gardens
- Private surf or SUP lessons
- Chef-prepared Aphrodisiac picnic on a beach at sunset
- Couples Oracle reading
- Yoga or PFilates class
- Couples Energy Portraits with Reiki (personalized artwork with imposed personal energy)
- Create your own luxury Signature Perfume with Shores Company
- Traditional Hawai'ian Lei Po'o (flower crown) making private class
* We can arrange for private helicopter tours, zip-lining, sunset catamaran tours with whales, guided spear fishing with a local expert, couples massage at Turtle Bay Resort and Spa!
Photography & Keepsakes
At the end of your retreat, you’ll receive access to an online album of your experience.
Culinary Experience
- Fresh-pressed juice, hand-poured coffee, herbal tea and snacks offered throughout the day.
- Meals: A curated blend of local North Shore dining experiences and custom farm-to-table meals tailored to your preferences and dietary needs. Lunches included in your reservation!
Private Grounds & Amenities
During downtime, retreat participants enjoy exclusive access to our private grounds, designed to enhance relaxation, wellness, and connection:
- 8-Person Finnish Steam Sauna – Detoxify, relax, and rejuvenate together.
- Electronic Cold Plunge – Stimulate circulation, reduce inflammation and pain, recover from excursions, and awaken the senses.
- Full-Service Covered Outdoor Gym – Featuring a rower, stationary bike, Pilates reformer, weight set, and more for guided or independent movement.
- Joovv Red Light Therapy Machine – Support cellular health, circulation, and recovery.
- Medicinal Cabinet of Essential Oils – Curated to support relaxation, focus, and energy.
- Walking Meditation Lavender Garden – A fragrant, immersive space for reflective practice, mindful walking, and emotional grounding.
Why This Retreat is Special
- A perfect blend of immersive therapeutic growth and playful adventure, so you leave feeling rejuvenated as a vacation should.
- Deeply integrates physical and sexual intimacy.
- Provides a full-system overhaul:
- Healing the individual with integrative medicine for mind and body.
- Strengthening the relationship through evidence-based sex and relationship therapy.
- Transforming the entire system through curated private excursions and experiential learning.
- Each day is personalized to your relational needs, ensuring maximum growth, connection, and lasting impact.
✅ Reserve your 5-day Couples Day Retreat and transform your relationship inside and out.
C ontact our retreat manager at Help@Bathurstfamilytherapy.com or text us your questions at (+1)215-692-2461 for an immediate response!
