5 Day Private Coupes Intimacy Retreat in Hawai'i
5 DAY PRIVATE COUPLES INTIMACY RETREAT (Reservation for 2)
Haleiwa, Hawaii, USA. Private Oceanview Villa
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Swim into your partner without a care in the world. Sip a cup of slow-drip coffee or homemade lemonade as you and your partner enjoy daily farm-to-fork breakfast-in-bed (or beach). Spread your toes in the sand while you exchange re-commitment letters and re-attune to each other’s magnetism with the help of our Yin & Yang sound baths.
Click Booking Dates for Reservation:
December 8 - 12th, 2025
January 5 - 9th, 2026
February 15 - 21st, 2026
March 22 - 28th, 2026
April 20 - 24th, 202 6
May 11 - 15th, 2026
June 8 - 12th, 2026
July 6 - 10th, 2026
September 28 - 2nd, 2026
October 12 - 16th, 2026
November 2 - 6th, 2026
Bring Your Magic Back
All workshops are uniquely personalized in collaboration with Dr. B using evidence-based therapy models for a truly award-winning wellness journey with 7x Global Award-Winning Relationship and Sex Therapist, Dr. Stephanie Bathurst .
Our 5-day Couples Day Retreat is a fully immersive experience designed to reignite passion, deepen intimacy, and transform your relationship on every level. Each day integrates clinically-guided workshops with adventure, play, and personalized experiences, giving you the growth equivalent to years of couples therapy —without exhaustion, stress, or distraction. This retreat includes:
- 10 two-hour therapy workshops directly with Dr. Bathurst and personalized to your relationship
- 5 date excursions (your choice from 12 extraordinary intimacy-building adventures)
- A chef-prepared lunch each day of retreat
- Full access to our private, on-site Spa area (includes sauna, cold plunge, full gym, walking labyrinth, red light)
- Heathy snacks, coffee, tea and juice throughout the day
- Gifts and therapy resources to take home for long-term success
- Post-retreat complimentary, lifetime access to 30+ online coaching lessons to maintain heath and vigor of your romance
Inclusive Therapist-Led Workshops & Transformative Experiences
- Libido Rejuvenation & Alignment – Rediscover sexual energy and harmonize desire between partners.
- Gottman-based Resentment Repair (Phase 1 + EMDR) – Heal past hurts, rebuild trust, and restore emotional safety.
- Somatic Bodywork & Breathwork (including Tantra & Karezza) – Reawaken bodily awareness, cultivate arousal, and deepen connection.
- Arousal Amplifier Techniques – Learn actionable tools to increase sexual energy, responsiveness, and shared pleasure.
- Introduction to Kink & Erotic Exploration – Safely explore erotic curiosity, communication, and play.
- Holistic Health & Integrative Medicine for Individual Enlightenment – Optimize mind, body, and nervous system wellness through nutrition, herbal medicine, and functional practices.
- Mindfulness, Meditation & Meditative Movement – Cultivate presence, relaxation, and conscious connection with your partner.
- Sexual Biofeedback & Pelvic Floor Activation – Build stamina, increase pleasure, and enhance intimate responsiveness.
- Gottman-Based Emotional and Physical Reconnection (Phase 2 + 3) – Evidence-based techniques to resolve disputes and strengthen emotional attunement.
- Re-Commitment Rituals & Relationship Visioning – Exercises to clarify values, desires, and long-term goals together.
Excursions with Purpose
Each land and sea adventure is linked to a therapeutic exercise or concept, introduced at the start of the experience to maximize meaning and integration. Excursions are led by certified local specialists, ensuring every activity reinforces relational and personal growth.
Your Choice of 5 Excursions
- Guided snorkeling with turtles or dolphins
- Paumalu Pillbox Hike or Ka' ena State Park scenic hike
- Beehive tour and honey tasting at Hanai Hives
- Hawaiian Luau dinner and show at Toa Luau
- Swim under a waterfall at Waimea Botanical Gardens
- Private surf or SUP lessons
- 7. Chef-prepared Aphrodisiac picnic on a beach at sunset
- Couples Oracle reading
- Yoga or PFilates class
- Couples Energy Portraits with Reiki (personalized artwork with imposed personal energy)
- Create your own luxury Signature Perfume with Shores Company
* For an additional fee, we can arrange for private helicopter tours, zip-lining, sunset catamaran tours with whales, guided spear fishing with a local expert, couples massage at Turtle Bay Resort and Spa!
Photography & Keepsakes
All excursions are photographed by your guides. At the end of your retreat, you’ll receive access to an online album of your experience. There is also an option to select photos for a custom retreat book, shipped directly to your home.
Culinary Experience
- Fresh-pressed juice, hand-poured coffee, herbal tea and snacks offered throughout the day.
- Meals: A curated blend of local North Shore dining experiences and custom farm-to-table meals tailored to your preferences and dietary needs. Lunches included in your reservation!
Private Grounds & Amenities
During downtime, retreat participants enjoy exclusive access to our private grounds, designed to enhance relaxation, wellness, and connection:
- 8-Person Finnish Steam Sauna – Detoxify, relax, and rejuvenate together.
- Electronic Cold Plunge – Stimulate circulation, reduce inflammation and pain, recover from excursions, and awaken the senses.
- Full-Service Covered Outdoor Gym – Featuring a rower, stationary bike, Pilates reformer, weight set, and more for guided or independent movement.
- Joovv Red Light Therapy Machine – Support cellular health, circulation, and recovery.
- Medicinal Cabinet of Essential Oils – Curated to support relaxation, focus, and energy.
- Walking Meditation Lavender Garden – A fragrant, immersive space for reflective practice, mindful walking, and emotional grounding.
Why This Retreat is Special
- A perfect blend of immersive therapeutic growth and playful adventure, so you do the work but leave feeling rejuvenated as a vacation should.
- Deeply integrates physical and sexual intimacy into its curriculum.
- Provides a full-system overhaul:
- Healing the individual with integrative medicine for mind and body.
- Strengthening the relationship through evidence-based sex and relationship therapy.
- Transforming the entire system through curated private excursions and experiential learning.
- Each day is personalized to your relational needs, ensuring maximum growth, connection, and lasting impact.
✅ Reserve your 5-day Couples Day Retreat and transform your relationship inside and out.
C ontact our retreat manager at Help@Bathurstfamilytherapy.com or text us your questions at (+1)215-692-2461 for an immediate response!
