Specialties
Private Client Sessions
We Heal
Affair Repair
Identify the core wound among all 13 forms of betrayal (including infidelity). Engage in a 3-phase repair process, including the Forgiveness Methodology, with the intention of releasing stagnant negative emotions.
Sexual Dysfunction
Identify underlying causes for female sexual pain, erectile dysfunction (ED), low desire, hormone imbalance, and physical or sexual trauma response. Implementing a biopsychosocial model of holistic treatment for non-invasive, long-term healing of these symptoms.
8 Forms of Intimacy
An intimacy model was developed by Dr. Bathurst to improve fulfillment within all eight types of human intimacy expression: psychological, physical, creative, intellectual, social, sexual, emotional, and experiential.
LGBTQIA2S+
An affirming therapeutic approach that focuses on embracing diverse sexual and gender expressions and their needs. Dr. Bathurst specializes in lesbian and gay relationship dynamics and supports gender affirmation processing, identity formation, and development
Deciding to Stay or Leave
With couples therapy ineffective if any partner is “undecided” about their commitment to the relationship, Dr. Bathurst offers a structured, maximum 6-session model to guide in the decision-making process and achieve clarity.
Porn & Love Addiction
Treatment of any hypersexual behavior (including pornography addiction and excessive self-pleasure habits) that creates dysfunction in multiple areas of life. Managing compulsive thoughts or images and structuring routines for reduced impulsivity.
Communication & Conflict
Integrating EFT, IMAGO, NVC Theory, and Gottman to remove toxic communication, enhance conversational intimacy, and contract the relationship roles for long-lasting and sustainable systems.
Fixing Low Libido
Integrating nutrition, somatics, relationship health, medication review, aphrodisiacs, libido enhancement, and sexual compatibility improvement within partnerships plays a critical role in personal fulfillment. Libido is multi-faceted and negatively impacted by multiple variables.
Relationship Recontracting
Most appropriate for romantic partnerships looking to healthily and mindfully transition from monogamy into ethical non-monogamy, to include swinging, play partners, BDSM, polyamory, sexual exploration, etc. Kink, Mulitamor, BDSM Specialty care and support for clients who identify within the Kink community or are considering entering into Ethical Non-Monogamy or embracing BDSM dynamics within their relationships.
Nonmonogamy ENM
Inclusive of severe and pervasive trauma exposure over the childhood or adult lifespan of a person. Treatment of C-PTSD often includes resolution of its symptoms: adrenal fatigue, mood disorders, attachment disruption, autoimmune disorders, and relationship toxicity.
Complex Trauma
Presenting within 4 quadrants: secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized, attachment is healed using a combination of emotion-focused therapy and the inner aspects model, with the goal of creating an earned secure attachment through self-parenting.
Attachment Healing
Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized. Attachment is healed using a combination of Emotion Focused Therapy and Inner Aspects Model with the goal of creating an Earned Secure Attachment through self-parenting.
Private Session
Just you and Dr. Bathurst. Work to heal pain, redefine your future and improve quality of life through the lens of integrity. Holistically heal trauma, attachment wounds and mood disorders. Dr. Bathurst implements an eclectic approach of evidence-based techniques for rapid growth including: CBT, EFT Tapping, Narrative, EMDR, Positive Psychology, Herbalism, Light Therapy.
- Resources, Worksheets or Homework
- Email / Text Support
- Personalized Treatment Plan
- Doctor-to-doctor Collaboration
Couples Session
A multi-person couples session with Dr. Bathurst. Work to repair, resolve and rejuvenate relationship dynamics. Dr. Bathurst implements an eclectic approach of evidence-based techniques for rapid growth including, but not limited to: Gottman, Sex Therapy, Energy Healing, Emotional Freedom Technique, IMAGO, Polyvagal Theory, Herbalism, Relationship Contracting.
- Resources, Worksheets or Homework
- Email / Text Support
- Personalized Treatment Plan
- Doctor-to-doctor Collaboration
Discernment Counseling
Are you or your partner unable to decide if you want to stay in the relationship or leave? Dr. Bathurst applies an evidence-based structure of Discernment Counseling that resolves indecision in the commitment of a relationship. Sessions include private and conjoint meetings. Initial Session is 2-hours. Subsequent sessions (up to 6) may be 1.5 or 2-hours.
Growth Package (15% Off)
Purchase a package of 6 hours of private sessions to be used in any duration (applicable to individual, couple, holistic health, or discernment) and save 15% on the total price! Therapy and Coaching requires investment. As our appreciation for your continued commitment, here is 15% off!
Holistic Healing Programs
What We Heal
Holistic Anxiety
Applying a blend of complementary therapies for the stabilization of anxiety or OCD. Inclusive of exercise, herbal supplementation, behavioral modification, cognitive reframing, dietary changes, neurotransmitter rebalancing, and inflammation assessments.
Holistic Depression
Applying a blend of complementary therapies for the stabilization of depression, dysthymia, or bipolar disorder. Inclusive of exercise, herbal supplementation, behavioral modification, cognitive reframing, dietary changes, neurotransmitter rebalancing, and inflammation assessments.
Holistic ADHD
Applying a blend of complementary therapies for the stabilization of ADD or brain fog. Inclusive of exercise, herbal supplementation, behavioral modification, cognitive reframing, dietary changes, neurotransmitter rebalancing, and inflammation assessments.
Holistic PMDD
Applying a blend of complementary therapies for the stabilization of PMDD and other menstrual-related disorders. Inclusive of exercise, herbal supplementation, behavioral modification, cognitive reframing, dietary changes, neurotransmitter rebalancing, and inflammation assessments.
Nervous System Regulation
Developing coping tools to regulate the nervous system ensures safety, . Breathwork, vagus nerve, mindfulness, couples grounding, herbs and natural supplements,
Romantic Energy Healing
Guidance on recalibrating each partner's masculine and feminine energy to support compatability.
Growing Together
Assisting in relationship re-contracting, adaptation of change, and education on developmental life stages to encourage success and satisfaction with life. These include premarital counseling, divorce, infertility or miscarriage, empty nesters, retirement, etc.
Emotional Attunement
The ability to manage your own emotions and equally understand the emotions of people around you. There are five key elements to EQ: self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills.
New Client Consultation
Private phone or video call with Dr. Bathurst to identify hopes and goals for your therapy
process and to confirm that we are the best clinical fit. Get all questions answered, understand her process and discover her recommendations for how to heal the core issues linked to the problem at hand. Ready to start?
Schedule initial session!
FREE Discovery Call
A confidential call with Dr. Bathurst to discuss the secret-sauce of this evidence-based romance-building program. Get your questions answered, take a look into the courses, and learn how all 4 stages build your relationship a solid foundation in rapid time (a complete overhaul in 90 days!)
Pelvic Floor Healing
PFilates is an evidence-based pelvic floor healing program that uses at-home exercises with breath-work to rapidly strengthen pelvic floor without medication, surgery, or expensive equipment. PFilates was built by a Urologist and Physical Therapist to heal pelvic floor conditions like: mild prolapse, frequent bathroom trips, erectile dysfunction, low libido in women, chronic back or vaginal pain, incontinence, chronic hernias or hemorrhoids.
What You Get: ($600 VALUE)
- Pelvic Floor Healing in 28 days
- Live biofeedback from Dr. B
- Video, diagram and written instructions
- Personalized at-home plan
- Unlimited Email / Text Support
- Mindset & Nutrition Resources
- Somatic Breathwork Technique
Roommates to Romance 90 Day Live Coaching
Individuals and couples needing to release resentment, rediscover themselves and build romantic foundations, this virtual 90-day therapy program uses evidence-based approaches for noticeable impact. 30 + online video lessons and 5 live coaching sessions hosted by Top Doctor, award-winning Couples and Sex Therapist, Dr. Stephanie Bathurst.
What You Get: ($10,710 VALUE)
- Self-Paced Learning Portal
- 30+ Video Lessons (equivalent to 1 year in weekly therapy)
- Private Community Group
- 1-1 orientation session with Dr. B
- 4 1-hour private sessions with Dr. B
- Weekly Accountability Coaching
- DIY Mailed-Home Kits
- Unlimited Email / Text Support
Couples Intimacy-Building Retreats
What We Heal
Immersive Soul Reconnection
Full-immersion approach to energetically connecting with yourself and your partner(s). Activating emotional transformation and reconnecting to life with a deepened purpose.
Find Your Spark
Revive the “spark” that has been lost in your romantic connection through behavioral, mental, and sexual reactivation of feel-good hormones while reconditioning the partnership to represent playfulness, support, and passion.
Re-commitment
Private recommitment ceremony on the beach in Hawaii. Includes photography and traditional Hawaiian marriage affirmations to bless your bond. Each partner reads love notes of recommitment, future dreams, and the choice to share life with one another again.
Holistic Libido Rejuvenation
Integrating herbal supplements, bodily circulation techniques, trauma recovery, medical amelioration of SSRI symptoms, and somatic releases to improve organic libido.
Food as Medicine
Learn what herbs and foods growing in your area can be used for mental and physical health nutrition. Feed your soul and body by embracing holistic health as a lifestyle and experimenting with the provided recipes.
Passion
Using a combination of identity formation and value systems overview, assess your Ideal Self and Real Self, exploring opportunities for growth and change to enhance life fulfillment sustainably.
Mindfulness
Meditative movement with lavender walking labyrinth on property
Premarital Preparation
Typically, 5–7 sessions are held to deep-dive into value system comparison, communication health, future vision exploration, and relationship contracting to ensure the sustainability and satisfaction of the future marriage.
Semi-Private Couples Retreat
Ticket for 2
Held every other month in 2026 in both Haleiwa, Hawaii and occasional global destinations. This small-group retreat is specially crafted with daily excursions and therapy workshops that are guaranteed to replenish romantic energy and revitalize self. With a very small group of well-vetted couples, our private ocean-view property embodies serenity, privacy, and beauty.
What You Get: $10,000 VALUE
- Ocean-View lodging with a private bedroom
- Farm-to-Fork meals from chef
- 20 hours of group therapy
- 5 adventure excursions
- Recommitment beach ceremony
- Holistic health plan for each partner
- Art of couples massage
- Group EMDR for healing
- Relationship connection resources
- Unlimited Email / Text Support
VIP Private Intimacy Retreat
5 Days for 2
This is a completely private, luxury couples retreat reserved for 1 couple. 5 days in private ocean-views with full spa amenities where workshops are hosted in the Sunset Hills of Haleiwa, HI, on the beautiful island of O'ahu. This retreat includes 2 daily therapy workshops with Dr. B and 5 total bonding excursions. Gain 6-months-worth of weekly couples therapy while feeling energized from vacation excursions! Save time and money for future.
What You Get: $25,000 VALUE
(compare to
Gottman 2-day retreats)
- Ocean-Views with Spa onsite
- Farm-to-Fork lunches from chef
- 20 hours of 1-1 couples therapy
- 5 adventure excursions
- Recommitment beach ceremony
- Holistic health plan for each partner
- Art of couples massage
- Gottman repair process with EMDR
- Relationship connection resources
- Unlimited Email / Text Support
1 Day Couples Retreat
Ticket for 2
Virtual or in-person at Dr. Bathurst's home office in Halei'wa Hawai'i. Crafted with 1 choice of excursion and 2 different therapy workshops of your choosing that are guaranteed to replenish romantic energy and revitalize self. Completely private experience held on a ocean-view property embodies serenity, privacy, and beauty.
What You Get: $3,000 VALUE
- 4-5 hours of private therapy
- 1 adventure excursions
- Relationship connection resources
- Email / Text Support
Couples Retreat Discovery Call (Free)
We offer complimentary video calls with Dr. Bathurst to answer all o your questions and verify that this is the perfect retreat for your relationship needs. Dr. Bathurst will overview the process and her team can answer all logistics questions to set you up for success. Reserve your spot today before they are all booked!
- Sensory Intimacy Play Table
- Guided Erotic Positioning Practice
- How To: Eight Female Orgasm Types
- How To: Three Male Orgasm Styles
- Complimentary Date Idea Gift
- Custom NDAs
- Karezza Tantric Intimacy Teaching
- Ho‘oponopono Energy Healing
- Somatic Movement with Breathwork
- Rapid Trauma Resolution with EMDR
Business Networking
What We Offer
Sexual Health Education
Clinicians looking for guidance and supervision on sexual health and expression may request collaboration. Dr. Bathurst is receptive to requests for education-based community enhancement opportunities.
Relationship Education
Clinicians looking for guidance and supervision on relationship health, kink-identifying clients, and advanced ENM systems may request collaboration. Dr. Bathurst is receptive to requests for education-based community enhancement opportunities.
Emotional Health Education
Clinicians looking for guidance and supervision on holistic mental health, mindfulness practices, etc. may request collaboration. Dr. Bathurst is receptive to requests for education-based community enhancement opportunities.
Cross-Referrals
We are always excited to develop trusting relationships with other experts in the field. It’s critically important that we can depend on each provider referral we share with our clients to ensure their smooth transition and continuity of care.
Authoring Requests
As an author, Dr. Bathurst enjoys supporting other authors in expert statements or inclusions in book chapters. If you are interested in Dr. Bathurst providing input or expert statements or would like to co-author a book, please schedule a call.
Speaking Engagements
Dr. Bathurst has spoken on multi-disciplinary health panels in her fields of specialty. She has been developing and teaching professional CEUs to other providers since 2019. Her articulate breadth of knowledge offers audiences substantial gains and captivation.
Professional Networking
Reserved for 30 minutes. These are best for “catch-up” meetings and quick strategy sessions. Networking for business co-creation, speaking engagements, retreat co-hosting, expert writing statement requests, authorship opportunities, ambassadorship, and general networking.
Professional Networking
Reserved for 60 minutes. These are best for “catch-up” meetings and quick strategy sessions. Networking for business co-creation, speaking engagements, retreat co-hosting, expert writing statement requests, authorship opportunities, ambassadorship, and general networking.
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Get Familiarized
View our services and offerings before scheduling a free consultation. We offer online courses with live support, 1-1 coaching, in-person retreats and so much more.
Book a Consultation
During your video consultation, your therapist will answer all questions about options for therapy, retreats & programs. She will share insights on your treatment recommendations, and get you scheduled!
Attend a Retreat
Join us for a magical week that transforms your bond. We offer private, customized couples therapy retreats & programs. Semi-private group retreats offered throughout the year.
