Transformational Retreat for Real Relationship Change

Step into a deeply immersive, semi‑private couples retreat designed to awaken every dimension of your relationship.

Set on the North Shore of Oʻahu (and select California coastal locations), this experience blends:

• Evidence‑based therapy
• Somatic healing
• Curated experiential excursions
• Flow Theory of Relationship Energy (a proprietary system found nowhere else in the world)

With only 4 couples per therapeutic workshop, you receive individualized guidance, deep personalization, and the safety of small‑group connection.

This is not a vacation pretending to be therapy. And it’s not therapy that leaves you exhausted.

It is transformational relationship work inside a restorative, beautiful, pleasure‑filled experience.

What Makes This Retreat Different

Two of the world’s leading experts in relationship & sex therapy — in one place.
9 Global Awards of Excellence • Trauma‑informed • Evidence‑based • Intimacy‑centered

This retreat is designed to maximize impact by working directly with the top experts, not assistants, coaches, or rotating facilitators.

For five full days, you are guided personally by:

• Dr. Stephanie Bathurst, PhD, LCMFT, internationally recognized relationship & sex therapist and creator of Flow Theory of Relationship Energy
• Kaitlin Weichert, LCMFT, respected relationship expert specializing in attachment, emotional safety, and relational repair

Instead of spending years in drawn‑out traditional therapy models…
Instead of draining money and energy on multiple courses, seminars, and weekend intensives…

This is one intentional investment that delivers measurable returns in:

• Happiness
• Fulfillment
• Emotional safety
• Sexual confidence
• Long‑term relational stability

This retreat is a rare blend of:

• Deep therapeutic transformation
• Nervous‑system regulation
• Sexual reconnection
• Adventure, play, and pleasure
• Luxury, privacy, and safety

You do the work — and you leave feeling energized, bonded, and renewed.

This is your time to enjoy a slice of romantic Heaven (or Haven). Our mission is to craft for you a connection of depth through activities centered on all 8 forms of intimacy that you never knew were possible: Physical, Emotional, Sexual, Experiential, Social, Psychological, Creative, Intellectual.

The Work

Personalized Therapeutic Workshops

Over 10 two‑hour customized sessions, couples explore all 8 Forms of Intimacy:

Emotional • Sexual • Physical • Experiential • Intellectual • Spiritual • Recreational • Financial

Core workshop experiences include:

• Libido Rejuvenation & Compatibility
• Somatic Bodywork & Breathwork (Tantra + Karezza)
• Arousal Amplifier Techniques
• Sexual Biofeedback & Pelvic Floor Activation
• Ocean‑Based Resentment Release Ceremony
• Sacred Re‑Commitment Beach Ceremony

Each workshop concludes with integration tools, gifts, and resources to support long‑term growth.

Retreat Structure

Each day is designed for balance:

Therapy • Integration • Embodiment • Adventure • Connection

This structure allows for:

• Deep transformation
• Nervous system regulation
• Emotional processing
• Sexual reconnection
• Joy, play, and pleasure

So you return home changed — not depleted.

Three‑Level Transformation Model

We work across three levels of healing:

Individual

Integrative mind‑body healing, somatic regulation, and wellness practices

Relationship

Evidence‑based couples therapy, intimacy repair, and sexual reconnection

Systemic & Experiential

Curated shared experiences that rewire how you experience love, safety, pleasure, and partnership

This Retreat Is For Couples Who Want:

• Deep emotional reconnection
• Restored sexual intimacy
• Nervous‑system safety
• Secure attachment
• Play, pleasure, and passion
• Tools they can bring home
• A relationship that feels alive again

Why This Works Faster Than Traditional Therapy

Traditional couples therapy often moves slowly—not because couples aren’t trying, but because the format works against real change.

• One hour per week

• Nervous systems dysregulated by daily life

• Conversations stop just as they get meaningful

• Progress fragmented by time, stress, and avoidance

This retreat is built differently which offers you rapid results with deeper impact.

Contact your retreat manager at Help@Bathurstfamilytherapy.com or at (+1)215-692-2461 to secure your deposit today before they all fill up!

Mahalo Nui!