Semi-Private Intimacy Retreat for Couples - All-Inclusive

UPCOMING Semi-private Couples Intimacy Retreats for 2025. Reserve your spot today!

• July 13-19th 2025 in Haleiwa, Oahu, Hawaii - SOLD OUT
• August 2-8th 2025 in Haleiwa, Oahu, Hawaii - 3 Spots!

Check out our Retreat Agenda or see full details below. To learn even more visit our retreats page or schedule a Discovery Call today. Swim into intentional quality time with your partner without a care in the world. Sip a cup of slow-drip coffee as you and your partner enjoy daily farm-to-fork breakfast-in-bed (or beach), with the ocean crashing just steps away from our private mansion. Spread your toes in the sand as you exchange re-commitment letters and re-attune to each other’s magnetism with the help of our Yin & Yang sound baths. Held throughout the year in Hawaii, this small-group retreat is specially crafted with daily excursions and transformational therapy workshops that are guaranteed to replenish your romantic energy and revitalize the self. With a very small group of well-vetted couples, our private beach-access property embodies serenity, privacy, and beauty while we “do the work” of releasing past pain moments.

Welcome the Magic Back

All workshops are uniquely built using evidence-based therapy models and led by your very own Relationship and Sex Therapist, Dr. Stephanie Bathurst . Dr. Bathurst remains on-premises during the entire retreat experience to answer all of your questions, personalize your daily sessions, and support every romantic need to make this a truly unforgettable rite of passage for your partnership.

7 Workshops + Recommitment Ceremony included in your ticket!

1. Resentment Repair (Gottman Phase 1 + EMDR for emotional cleansing)
2. Resentment Repair (Gottman Phase 2 + Emotional Attunement Skill Development)
3. Reconnection (Gottman Phase 3 + Somatic release of resentment)
4. Meditation & Mindfulness
5. Aphrodisiacs
6. Holistic Mental Health
7. Somatic Bodywork with Tantra Breath-work
8. Libido Compatibility
9. Introduction to Kink
10. Private Re-Commitment Ceremony on the Beach!
11. Foundation Building (Values, Needs and Contracting)
12. Nervous System Reset (Acupressure Tapping, Vagus Nerve Stimulation, Brainwave training)
13. Rituals that Bond
14. Science Behind Lasting Relationships (Learn exactly what makes romance succeed vs. fail and how to adapt for success)
15. Pelvic Floor healing (improve balance, function and libido)

Excursions included in your ticket (Choice of 5)!

1. Snorkeling with turtles or dolphins
2. Paumalu Pillbox Hike or Ka' ena State Park scenic hike (varying levels of athleticism are offered)
3. Tour our very own bee hive at Hanai Hives Apiary with private honey tasting
4. Hawaiian Luau dinner and show at Toa Luau
5. Bathe under a waterfall after walking through Waimea Botanical Gardens
6. Private surf or SUP lesson
7. Chef-prepared Aphrodisiac picnic on a beach at sunset
8. Couples Reiki Clearing and Oracle reading
9. Yoga class
10. Couples Energy Portraits (personalized artwork with imposed personal energy)
11. Create your own luxury Signature Perfume with Shores Company
12. Private Couples Photography Session
13. Art of Weaving Coconut Hats Class

This is your time to enjoy a slice of romantic Heaven (or Haven). Our mission is to craft for you a connection of depth through activities centered on all 8 forms of intimacy that you never knew were possible: Physical, Emotional, Sexual, Experiential, Social, Psychological, Creative, and Intellectual Intimacy.

Our Magic Promises…

• Secure attachment
• Practice and bring home intimacy-building techniques
• Sex positive (be ready to explore)

Luxury Venues

We secure the very best accommodations for our guests. From fresh flowers on the bed, welcome baskets filled with local goodies, and holistic inclusions like our red light machine, we ensure this feels like the home that offers serenity and joy. With private ocean-view accommodations that offer luxurious amenities for health and wellness, water and beach activities for our adventurous couples and private, comfortable spaces around the property to sink into deep intimacy.

• A typical semi-private retreat hosts a maximum of 7 couples to maintain personalization and privacy.

Food for the Soul

After a delightful day of sound bathing, tantric breathwork, and enjoying an afternoon snuggle in your hammock, a full-course lunch will be delivered to you with the option of enjoying your intimate connection over lunch or heading to the beach for a picnic (picnic blanket included). Your private chef excels in lavish, aromatic dishes filled with nutrient-dense raw foods and natural aphrodisiacs like saffron, vanilla bean, beets, avocado, asparagus, and pomegranate. Our VIP services happily create food adaptations to meet your specific food needs while accommodating dietary modifications upon request.

Create Secure Bonds

In this retreat, you learn HOW to create secure attachment bonds and amplify arousal within your partnership. The amount of healing and happiness that each retreat client reports here will astound you. T his retreat includes chauffeured transportation around the island, VIP airport transfers with Lei, 7 therapeutic workshops and customized 1-1 sessions with Dr. Bathurst, all meals by your private in-house chef, ocean-view accommodations, therapeutic resources and gifts to bring home for continued growth, and truly unforgettable date nights that boost your reserves of positive energy.

• We accept HSA funds and offer payment plans through Affirm! This is possible for you. Now is the time.

Return home with profound relational and emotional intelligence in a way that you didn’t know your relationship needed.

Contact your retreat manager at Help@Bathurstfamilytherapy.com or at (+1)215-692-2461 to secure your deposit today.