A Day in the Retreat life

Our 5-day Hawaiian Couples Retreat  is a fully immersive experience designed to reignite  passion, deepen intimacy, and transform your relationship  on every level. Each day integrates clinically-guided workshops with  adventure, play, and  personalized experiences, giving you the growth equal to 6 months of  couples therapy + vacation + adventure, which is a immeasurable ROI—without exhaustion, stress, or distraction.

Save time and energy with our evidence-based rapid protocols for reconnection!

Are you Feeling?

• Like good roommates but not romantic partners?
• Stuck on HOW to activate intimacy and passion?
• Need to spice things up in your long-term relationship?
• Lacking connection and confidence after having kids?
• Frustrated by past failed couples therapy experiences?

Therapist-Led Workshops

Built by Global Award-Winning Psychosexual Therapist, Dr. Stephanie Bathurst

• Libido Rejuvenation & Alignment: Rediscover sexual energy and harmonize desire between partners.
• Gottman-Based Resentment Repair (Phase 1 + EMDR): Heal past hurts, rebuild trust, and restore emotional safety. EMDR offered to cleanse emotions.
• Somatic Bodywork & Breathwork (including Tantra & Karezza): Reawaken bodily awareness, cultivate arousal, and deepen connection.
• Arousal Amplifier Techniques: Learn actionable tools to increase sexual energy, responsiveness, and shared pleasure.
• Introduction to Kink & Erotic Exploration: Safely explore erotic curiosity, communication, and play.
• Holistic Health & Integrative Medicine for Individual Enlightenment: Optimize mind, body, and nervous system wellness through nutrition, herbal medicine, and functional practices.
• Mindfulness, Meditation & Meditative Movement: Cultivate presence, relaxation, and conscious connection with your partner.
• Sexual Biofeedback & Pelvic Floor Activation: Build stamina, increase pleasure, and enhance intimate responsiveness.
• Gottman-Based Reconnection (Phase 2 + 3 Repair): Evidence-based techniques to strengthen emotional attunement and reintegrate sensual touch.
• Re-Commitment Beach Ceremony: Private beach ceremony integrated into Hawaiian blessings for successful relationships.

We're the Only One in the World

Our workshops are uniquely built using evidence-based therapy models integrating copyrighted theories on Relationship Energy and 8 Forms of Intimacy developed by Relationship and Sex Therapist, Dr. Stephanie Bathurst. No where else in the world will you learn these tools and mindsets.

Built Just For you

• A perfect blend of immersive therapeutic growth and playful adventure, so you do the work AND leave feeling rejuvenated, as a vacation should.
• Deeply integrates physical and sexual intimacy into its curriculum.
• Provides a full-system overhaul:
• Healing the individual with integrative medicine for mind and body.
• Strengthening the relationship through evidence-based sex and relationship therapy.
• Transforming the entire system through curated private excursions and experiential learning.
• Each day is personalized to your relational needs, ensuring maximum growth, connection, and lasting impact in rapid time.

Our mission is to craft for you a connection of depth through activities centered on all 8 forms of intimacy that you never knew were possible: Physical, Emotional, Sexual, Experiential, Social, Psychological, Creative,   and   Intellectual Intimacy.

This Retreat Will

• Secure your attachment
• Teach you intimacy-building techniques to take home
• Be sex positive (exploration and adventure)

Why You Want to Chose Us

• Private, ocean-view workshop space on North Shore of Oahu, HI
• 5 days of VIP 1-on-1 sessions with Dr. Stephanie Bathurst, 7x award-winning Intimacy and Relationship Expert
• 24+ hours of personalized therapy & experiences (equivalent growth to at least 6 months of traditional couples therapy)
• All-inclusive romantic excursions and curated culinary experiences for lunch
• Access to private Spa amenities on the grounds during down-time: Finnish sauna, cold plunge, full gym (including rower, bike and pilates reformer), meditation garden).
• Personalized planning and post-retreat resources for long-term success.

Our retreats specialize in high-end, luxury services that do not compare in value or experience to standard marital seminars in the US—it’s a transformational, VIP-level experience that maximizes change in a short period of time using trademarked theories and structures developed by Dr. Stephanie Bathurst.

Your Retreat Includes:

A complimentary 1-hour virtual orientation session with Dr. Bathurst to personalize every detail, a total of 10 therapeutic workshops directly with Dr. Bathurst, ocean-view accommodations on a private 1-acre fruit farm, therapeutic resources and gifts to bring home, and 5 truly magical dates guaranteed to deepened connection, chef-prepared lunch and snacks during workshops.

• Spa amenities and personalized therapy workshops is an investment with guaranteed ROI for your relationship and quality of life.
• Save time and money in the long-term by investing in this immersive growth experience
• We accept HSA funds and offer itemized receipts for tax benefits
• Flight costs, transportation, and trip insurance are excluded in this package

Return home with profound relational and emotional intelligence in a way that you didn’t know your relationship needed, but without the energy exhaustion that traditional therapy models offer.

Bonus!

Every couple receives a digital photo album filled with memories of your retreat

Secure your dates before bookings fill up! Contact our retreat manager, Alex via email or phone to secure your deposit today. We can't wait to work together.