Married Couples Retreat in beautiful oahu!

5 days of bliss in Oahu, Hawaii. 2.5 full days of guided excursions. 2.5 full days of advanced therapeutic workshops. 

​We cover eight to ten weeks of couples therapy in 4-8 hours of workshops each day within a few days. Each excursion is connected with a therapeutic process for deepened meaning and structured to synchronize perfectly with your goals of attunement and connection.

During this time, we see no other clients because both your clinical therapist and marital/couples retreat manager is 100% devoted to you, your partner(s) and your relationship.”

Therapeutic Workshops ​
​(THE Growth PART OF THE RETREAT)

Our Clinician-created and taught workshops act as both Intimacy Elixirs + Foundation Fortifiers, teaching and applying skills and reframing the mentality behind the behavior change for a wholistic transformation. 

This advanced therapeutic retreat specifically targets Physical, Emotional and Sexual Intimacy enhancement through clinically-guided workshops while the excursions fulfill Experiential Intimacy needs within the relationship. 

These workshops meet the clinical standards of Gottman's 3rd phase of betrayal Repair, (re) Attachment, to heal past pain moments that pose a barrier to connection. 

We integrate a functional medicine component to the retreat experience, by ensuring there are optimal nutrients within the meal and snacks we provide during your stay, in the aromatherapy placed on the grounds, amino acids and hydration packets offered before hikes, and aphrodisiac stimulants you may taste test during workshops, etc.​
Dr. Bathurst’s holistic and eclectic therapeutic orientation offers a refreshing perspective for client’s who have had unsuccessful therapy experiences in the past, are experiencing stagnation in their own growth journey, OR have completed couple's growth opportunities nearby and are ready for a challenge to level-up their connection. She offers a collaborative and integrative approach of empowerment and psycho-sexual education to help clients live their best life in a sustainable way, leaving clients with tangible and actionable resources for enhanced efficacy rates post-program. ​

Inclusive Workshops 

  • Libido Rejuvenation & Alignment
  • Resentment Repair & Reconnection
  • Somatic Bodywork & Breath-work
                  (incorporating Tantra)
  • Introduction to Kink
  • Holistic Health & Integrative Medicine for Individual Enlightenment
  • Mindfulness & Meditative Movement
  • Arousal Amplifier Techniques

Excursions (The Play part of the retreat)

Each excursion will be linked to a therapeutic exercise or concept, to be included at the beginning of the experience for deepened meaning and full therapeutic immersion, led by certified, local specialists.

All excursions (land and sea) are accompanied with photography by the guides. All photos are accessible to clients in an online album at the end of their retreat week. There is an option to choose photos for print into a physical book and shipped home.

We handle all transportation to and from each excursion. We also take care of private meal reservations for each party after each excursion. Clients are responsible for the cost of their lunch and dinner meals, however, we handle all planning, reservations and transportation after each excursion meal so that you may enjoy the experience to the fullest. 

A home-cooked breakfast each morning is included in your package. We gather each morning with the group for a hearty breakfast and guide intention-setting for the day, emotional grounding and creating positive headspace. 

During your retreat stay, you have free use of our private grounds during down-time which includes use of our:
  • Joovv Red Light Machine, a well-equipped gym, Finnish Sauna, Medicinal Cabinet of Essential Oils, Dr. Bathurst's Library, yoga mats and beach essentials.

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Sample itinerary

Day 1
  • Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore. 
Workshops
  1. ​Mindfulness & Meditative Movement
  2. ​Arousal Amplifier Techniques
Excursion (Choice between)
  1. Yoga / PFilates - Aimed at enhancing sexual energy and relaxation, exercise is key to allowing your body the ability to produce hormones for mood elevation and libido.
  2. Hiking - Get some much-needed distance from the distraction of phones, work emails and social media. Work together and synchronize your pace as a couple. The breathtaking views atop an island mountain will bring you all the feels. This positive energy will be recirculated back within the coupledom.

Day 2
  • Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore. 
Workshops
  1. ​Somatic Bodywork & Breath-work (incorporating Tantra)
  2. Introduction to Kink
Excursion (Choice between)
  1. ​Snorkel - Practice your observational skills and mindfulness meditation by embracing the uncontrollability of the sea. Observe and respect the time and space of others as you swim with turtles and whales
  2. Waimea Botanical Gardens - Take in breath-taking natural gardens, float hand-in-hand in the Waimea waterfall pool and appreciate beauty when you see it. 

Day 3
  • Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore.
Workshops
  1. ​Resentment Repair & Reconnection
Excursion (Choice between) 
  1. Hawaiian Luau with Dinner -  These moments expand our sense of communion and belonging to others as we appreciate our history. Look toward a connective future and soak in the purity of Hawaiian culture with dance, dinner, demonstrations and music.
  2. Sunset Picnic - Immerse yourself in the astonishment of a Hawaiian sunset, guided by a local. Lavish basket of treats and bubblies to indulge in a private, romantic picnic.

Day 4
  • Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore. 
Workshops:
  1. ​Holistic Health & Integrative Medicine for Individual Enlightenment
  2. Libido Rejuvenation & Alignment
Excursion (Choice between)
  1. Surf Lesson - Learn to trust yourself and your natural instincts in this world. The security of self-trust is what creates the foundation for our ability to trust others.
  2. Stand Up Paddle Board - Strengthen your core for peak performance, allow your body to synchronize with the movement of the ocean rather than fight against it. This synchronization mimics the fluid movement of your partner’s body when dancing or making love.

Day 5
  • Morning breakfast on the grounds. Free morning to relax, exercise, play, connect, explore. 
​Workshops:
  1. ​Ritualized reconnection ceremony and gift exchange​
Regroup and ground in your education and re-attachment. Soak in your experience and leave as a new self, better partner and refreshed couple.